TranceBreakers Newsletter

Want to grow your soul?   Get in a relationship.   Intimate important relationships are the fast track to spiritual and personal growth.   The person you are the closest too may well become your spiritual teacher showing you constantly where you need to learn and grow.   Just by being his or her true and authentic self your buttons will get pushed and you will have an opportunity to grow. In my work with Sedona Soul Adventures I get to talk to dozens of couples every week about their relationships.   I have those in crisis who are calling about coming on a couples spiritual retreat and I have those who have already been on the retreat that I’m coaching when they get home.   What I see is always a battle between the forces of love and fear.   When couples choose love miracles are possible. When they choose fear, watch out, someone or everyone is going to get hurt.   In relationship I know I sometimes forget that my partner is trul...

Whenever I tell myself anything should be different than it is or think that someone shouldn’t be the way they are. I will feel pain.   Resistance equals pain and when I resist what is I hurt.   So often I find my clients and sometimes myself habitually in a loop of resistance and negativity.   It’s like drinking poison and waiting for the person I’m judging to get sick. It doesn’t work and the more poison I swallow or the more I resist what is the sicker I get.   So why is it that we choose such a failed strategy over and over again?   I think there may be something addictive about the pain and suffering that comes from resistance. My grandfather used to say “It’s not what happens to you in life, it’s what you do with what happens to you that counts.”   My parents like to say that “the world is fundamentally neutral and that our judgements determine how we feel and perceive everything.’ The moment I say “You shouldn’t be that way!” ...

We are human sorting machines walking through life putting everything we see hear and experience into baskets, “I like this”, “I don’t like this” “This is good”   “This is bad”.   Once we’ve figured out if something is good or bad or if we like it or don’t like it , we let it go and stop really observing or exploring it further.   What if we took a break from this sorting?   What would happen if instead of good, bad, right, wrong, like, dislike we just found everything to be interesting? When I’m coaching or taking clients through my Core Belief Transformation process or even in Past Life Regressions and Future Life Progressions I find myself sitting without judgement just finding everything so very interesting.   This allows me to explore anything in a deeper way and begin to find what purpose it may serve and what opportunities might exist to help the client.   For example, when in a Core Belief session we go back to a traumatic event in a cl...

Here is a powerful prayer from the Ancient Hawaiians that can create miracles in your life.  The Kahuna's believe that the energy you put out into the world comes back to you and whatever energy shows up in your world is the consequence of what you've sent out.  This prayer is about shifting the energy you put out to gratitude and love. Here is the prayer and it's four simple steps to create a powerful energy that transforms your world. Step 1: Repentance – I’M SORRY End the blame and claim responsibility for everything. You are responsible for everything in your mind. Once you realize that, it is only natural to feel sorry. This realization can hurt and you may resist accepting responsibility for things that look like they are happening outside off yourself. But everything on the outside is a reflection of something happening on the inside. Step 2: Ask Forgiveness – PLEASE FORGIVE ME This message may be to the one you’re in conflict with or to ...